Our fearless Nano Poblano leader Mark suggested some, um, interesting topics for the peppers. While some are tough to incorporate into a recovery blog, there is one that we can toy with today: 14. Today is National Make Up a Holiday Day. Make it a good one.
Here’s the plan: take a few, thoughtfully selected, steps from AA and tweak it into a holiday. Let’s get started!
Step 1: We admitted that we were powerless over alcohol – that our lives had become unmanageable.
Holiday: Letting Go Day / Freedom Day
This holiday is built around the tradition of making New Year’s resolutions. Each of us decides on something to let go of and we have water cooler discussions, and Facebook threads and Instagram posts about said plans. Resolutely letting go of things we’re powerless over will give us incredible freedom. For example,
- I give up on getting that clueless jerk in front of me to turn off his blinker signal.
- I let go of the embarrassment of singing off key and will still belt out my favorite songs just because I like them.
- I admit that I’m powerless to get people off their phones when dining together and actually have a conversation.
Just let it go people. Trust me, it feels good.
Step 4: Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
Holiday: List Day
Once each year, preferably after a big party kind of holiday, we each write an honest list of our shortcomings. Everyone posts a list (could be the real one, or a fake one that makes you appear to be the next Mother Teresa) on social media and then burns them in a neighborhood bonfire. The sooner we know our cr*p, the sooner we can clean it up and move on.
Step 10: Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
Holiday: Hug It Out Day
The day before Thanksgiving, everyone gets in contact with each person they have hurt, lied to, stolen from, messed with during the last year and owns up to their actions. Get it out. Don’t let it fester. The momentum created with everyone having these conversations will make them that much safer for everyone. On Thanksgiving everyone gives thanks for new beginnings with friends and family and its all hunky dory.